Elopement Dispute in Lombok: Between Tradition and Principles of Marriage in Islam (Review of Qs An-Nur:32)
Keywords:
elopement, Lombok tradition, Surah An-Nur verse 32, case study, triangulationAbstract
The phenomenon of elopement (merarik) in Lombok is one of the traditions that is firmly rooted in the culture of the Sasak people. However, this tradition often triggers social and legal conflicts, especially when it conflicts with the principles of marriage in Islam. This study aims to examine the dynamics of elopement in Lombok from the perspective of local traditions and Islamic sharia principles, focusing on the interpretation of Surah An-Nur verse 32. This study uses a qualitative method with a case study approach, utilizing data triangulation analysis through in-depth interviews, participatory observations, and document studies. Peer discussions and deepening of observations are also applied to enrich the analysis. The results of the study show that elopement in Lombok is not solely driven by tradition, but also involves social, economic, and diverse religious aspects. In the context of sharia, there are challenges in integrating this practice with Islamic values, especially regarding the principles and conditions of a valid marriage. The interpretation of Surah An-Nur verse 32 emphasizes the importance of the principles of responsibility, maturity, and openness in marriage, which are often overlooked in the practice of elopement. This study provides recommendations that educational approaches and cultural dialogue be applied to create harmony between local traditions and Islamic principles, in order to minimize potential conflicts.References
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