CONCEPTION OF JAVANESE CULTURAL MARRIAGE RESTRICTIONS IN BUILDING A SAKINAH FAMILY
Keywords:
Conception, Marriage Prohibition, Javanese Culture, Sakinah FamilyAbstract
Sakinah families in Javanese culture are strongly tied to the traditions of the ancestors, one of these traditions is the marriage prohibition. Marriage prohibition in Javanese culture is a tradition of restriction to get an ideal relationship (sakinah) according to Javanese society. Marriage prohibition in Javanese society can also be called mate restriction. From this explanation to find out the concept of a sakinah family through the prohibition of Javanese cultural marriage, this research uses a descriptive qualitative method with a library research model. The design in completing this research uses Ethnography-History Studies, where this research will examine further related to the history of Javanese culture, namely "marriage prohibition", see the history and basis of the culture so that it becomes a social phenomenon. Javanese people interpret the prohibition based on several factors, namely: First, Larangang marriage due to biological factors, which means that the marriage that is held from the bride and groom has a biological relationship. Second, Social Factors, namely where violators of the Ban will get social sanctions when carrying out this marriage ban, so that the impact will continue. Natural factors, basically Javanese people believe in the power of nature, or what is known as natural law, the community believes that everything that happens in every event cannot be separated from the power of Allah SWT. The concept of a sakinah family embedded in the marriage prohibition is actually a form of caution from the Javanese community.
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